Everytime we do or say something, subconsciously we worry if it's good or bad and if this act is one day going to bite us in the ass?
But there are many who do the worst things to others but never wondered if it was going to bite them back one day and when that time comes, they sit and question..
WHY IS THIS HAPPENING TO ME?
WHAT DID I DO TO DESERVE THIS?
WHY AM I NOT BLESSED?
WHY IS GOD PUNISHING ME?
So finally it lands to GOD being blamed?
People do the things they do, and then for some reason they forget or choose to forget and then wonder and blame others and GOD!
It is not just in charity that you receive in giving.
When we deliberately hurt the ones who love us (especially our children who depend on us for nothing more than UNCONDITIONAL LOVE), take their existence in our life for granted, or even throw our hormonal tantrums over them without caring less of their feelings.. and when you stop receiving any kindness from them, that is when (hopefully) you should realise.. YOU DIDN'T GIVE TO RECEIVE!!
We most often don't remember our wrong doings to others, but we cannot expect others to forget what wrong we have done to them and sadly when it is expressed, you get a slap on your face with a comment "WHATEVER!!" (have you read my previous post.. you should..now!)